Generally, something I have noticed in society. Women love to say they are in love, and that they treasure you, etc. I have found their behavior says a whole other story. I am currently dating a woman who loves to say she loves me, however, i personally think she loves the relationship and the idea of unity over the person, whoever it be, who is on the other side. What this means, is she is more afraid of being alone and desolate, than doing an inch of work to actually "fix" the relationship. This has caused humongous rifts in the relationship for a variety of reasons.
One such example is funnily enough breaking up. In her eyes, its better to stay together and be miserable than move on. And this is after multple failed breakup attempts, where she was given a piece of news, like we are not comptabilt, this isnt workin out, i dont see myself in a relationship, i need to work on myself. You would think after doing this 5, 10, 15, or 20 times would eventually drive the point home that its better to terminate the relationship, over keeping it alive. All its doing now is making a breakup more painful. And every time there's a new strings of excuses. The last one she wanted to know everything i was going to do post breakup, as if that is somehow relevant? This doesnt even get into the micro management on her side.
And this is where i ran out of ideas. Because now, once a month, like clockwork, i just know were gonna fight, there's gonna be a breakup speech, and well be back at point zero. Just let me fucking end this thing already, stop fucking lingering around waiting for the breakup to be reverted because we broke up on a monday and you want to leave on the weekend. Your just making my counter reaction become more angry and i wont care anymore about dumping your ass on the street. Like if the goal is to have the most violent, least of fucks given breakup, than this definitely how to go.
tldr: I hate current women
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[–] con77 ago
just tell her youre fucking someone else. that monkey will grab a different branch so quick it will make your head spin
[–] nougat_lord [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
LOL, that could actually work, but the epic meltdown would be a sight to behold