As someone who is married to a white woman and is starting a family, I know and admit that marriage in modern America or any western country is risky.
I'm not saying to never get married or have children, just be smart about it and realize that we're not living in the 1950s any more.
This also is not a post to bitch about women, this post is simply discussing the observable reality that men looking to get married need to be aware of.
If you think any of this is bullshit or not true, maybe you live in an Amish community or under a rock? This shit happens every day in modern America.
To pretend otherwise is to simply be an idiot or blind to easily accessible statistics or facts because of some bias you have.
If you don't believe these statistics, by all means research it and post your sources in the comments to correct me. It's not my job to baby sit you and tell you where to find all this information.
I've never been divorced, but many of lifelong my male friends have. I'm talking over 7 people that I personally know. These are guys that are hardworking god-fearing people that simply weren't the "yes dear" type or the type of cucked modern man that believes "happy wife happy life".
They weren't abusive, on drugs, lazy, etc., they just didn't let their wives push them around. That's the main reason why they're divorced. They married women that grew up in the modern world and were indoctrinated in the public school systems and in college to believe in feminist ideas.
The fact that some of them didn't make over $70,000 a year probably contributed to their inevitable divorces.
It was always the same story with several of my friends that don't make a whole lot of money. I witnessed many times how their wives would complain about how their friends had new cars and new appliances and huge houses and their friends husbands had fancy college degrees and why don't you and why can't their husbands make more money blah blah blah...
80% of divorces are filed by women. Most of the time it's because "they're not happy" which is code for "I'm losing my looks so now I need to get as much cock as possible". Or "You don't give me enough money." Or "You don't let me get away with whatever I want to do with my friends or other guys."
Over 50% of marriages end in divorce.
Over 85% of divorces end with the woman getting primary custody of the children regardless of how good of a man her ex husband was or how much of a piece of shit she is.
I don't know the statistics for child support and alimony, but good luck paying tens of thousands of dollars in legal fees and splitting half of your assets and wealth with her even if she literally just sat on her ass most of the time and contributed little to the marriage. If you think I'm kidding, go ahead and get married and have several kids and get a divorce and see how "easy" it is.
I personally took steps to protect my assets so I'm not worried, but the whole point of me writing this is because idiots like to pretend that marriage isn't risky when it clearly is.
And for those of you who like to say "DURRRR JUST FIND A GOOD WOMAN" well people can change can't they? Women often pretend to be someone they're not until about 1 or 2 years into dating them. Don't pretend like this doesn't happen. It's happened to me and many of my friends.
So what are the solutions?
Don't date a college educated woman
Don't date a woman who believes it's okay to sleep with random people or have casual sex
Don't date a feminist (obviously)
Date her for at least 3 years and even try living together before you decide on getting married. (I know living together before you're married sounds stupid, but you're going to have to find out how they really are one way or another)
Even if you take these steps it's not a guarantee of success. Be careful, don't think with your dick.
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[–] TheGook 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago (edited ago)
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