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[–] midnightblue1335 ago 

The people in my life who have done the most damage to me personally have been the women I have let into my life.

How do people do "damage" to other people? It requires the damaged person to lower their guard and allow the other person to have control over your feelings.

Sounds to me like you have a problem with making yourself really vulnerable to the women in your life.

You also may be exaggerating; emotionally, it always is going to hurt more when a woman you love/want to fuck walks away from you more than if your buddy walks away. You can't stick your dick inside of your buddy and perform a miracle by making a new life with him. Women do that. Your brain and your body know this, even if you don't consciously realize it- so when rebuffed by a female, it's always going to hurt.... and it will validate any existing insecurities you have about yourself.