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[–] mostlyfriendly 2 points 10 points (+12|-2) ago 

Happily married old fart here. My wife is awesome. She doesn't nag, she works hard, she is very careful with money, she puts my needs above everyone else - even above our children's needs. And, I do the same for her.

I have excelled at life in large part because I know she has my back - and I have hers. I've taken major career risks and she has always said "whatever, I know you will be successful and if you aren't, we will bounce back."

We go for many months without a disagreement. And, where there is a disagreement, it is a quiet conversation just between the two of us. Zero drama - it's amazing. Yeah, sex, company, etc. are great. But, it's more than that - it's a strategic partnership. We have our strengths and weaknesses ... we compliment each other and do more as a team than either of us could do individually. I couldn't imagine living my life without this partnership.

All that said:

if you've met women in 2019, they're fucking insane. It would be suicide to marry one.

My challenge to you: you aren't meeting the right girls. If you look in the trash ... you are going to find trash.

I could point you to a ~dozen single women that I know - right now - would potentially make great wives. They all attend my church. The ratio of single men to single women in church is very skewed. Single guys in 2019 don't have much interest in church ... and then they sit online and say that there are no good single women out there.

I'm not even suggesting that you have to believe the teachings of a church to show up to a singles class. I'm just saying ... there is a very strong positive correlation between good women and women who attend church. The more conservative / traditional the church ... the better the selection of women.

Yeah, there are some good woman who are atheist ... but they are rare, in my opinion. Most atheist women lack a moral compass, most are looking for a father figure and find it in the wrong places. For single christian women, the concept of God being a father figure is critical for their outlook on life and what they search for.

Just saying ... if you want to find a good women, you have to go where good women hang out...

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[–] mostlyfriendly ago 

Heh. Whatever helps you sleep at night, my friend.