I posted this in response to a rabid MGTOW adherent. I know it's long, but I think it is important that people (and men especially) understand this. If it is enlightening or inspiring to anybody, I'm glad. Thanks Goats.
Women didn't suddenly become shitty wives. Women have always been what they are. Go back to the mother worship cults that precede organized religion. You think this "black pill" of yours is new? It was known by our ancestors long before us what woman is, in the archetypal collective sense. They are pure chaos. Pure energy. One of your fundamental errors is approaching women like they are a male body/mind. They aren't. But you are expecting their behaviors to align with the values you hold yourself to, and it's literally like walking across tacks intentionally.
It's man who is tested and measured by how he can contain that energy. It's why men compete and try to be heroes. Women are always a test, always a measure of yourself as a man at any moment. And no man can be perfect. Going into love, it's like creating an electric arc between man and woman and the man has the job of trying to control that pure, chaotic energy.
The men who are angry about this situation, this reality, and their place in existence just haven't taken responsibility for being a man. They are afraid of the reality that literally everything in life is a test, including women. Imagine yourself like a plant, the same "mother" that is your rock and your source of sustenance for growth is also the source of the frost, the storm, the fire, and the mother always has a harvest, cutting the plants from asunder and re-seeding the earth (figuratively, with blood) for the next cycle. Woman exalts you, and then eats you. A man takes responsibility for the fact he is stepping into fire whenever he engages with women, and he doesn't hate them for it, because although they can cause the greatest pain, they are also what make him a God.
Weak men like you want women to be mother, the nurturing and safe place, the womb, where she can't and wouldn't hurt you. You haven't developed consciously to the point of separating from mother so that you can see the greater complexity of woman. Woman is also the devourer. The same energy you liberate from the earth that feeds you spiritually and sexually that comes from woman, is also so chaotic and high-energy that it can burn you up. And over a lifetime, it really does. It's why men die earlier. Why they are the sacrificial element. Our metaphysical existence is that which controls the electricity, we burn ourselves up and we die. We live for the joyful moments where playing with that energy makes us Gods for a short time.
You have to get over being afraid of woman, and being afraid of loss, and pain, and the possibility that things don't work out. Fundamentally, it's always a fear of failure when it comes to MGTOW men. They are so afraid of losing or being found wanting that they won't ever play the game; they still want to be perfect for mother. They want to stay in the world of mom, where that woman won't ever hurt them. Guess what, that isn't where living happens. Living and true meaning happen where things are uncertain and unknown, and where the possibility of failure and pain and loss is real. I will grant you, that our masculine societal structures ARE WHAT CONTAINS the energy of woman. Christianity is an excellent example, it's a collective technology for controlling the female energy. I'm not saying that's a bad thing. It's desirable. But what we are seeing right now shouldn't surprise anyone.
The structures we were using to conduct the feminine energy in our society, our circuits if you will, were religious and family-structural. We are seeing those circuits destroyed and so now women's energy is running amok again.
On a fundamental level, all SOCIAL/CULTURAL REVOLUTION is the destruction of structures that contained feminine energy and channeled it. When you let it loose, it is destructive. Women didn't suddenly become like this; they always have been like this. It's our circuits to channel their energy that have changed, they are still just pure chaotic, irrational, destructive, but fucking beautiful and life-giving energy. You can now see how all of this is really the responsibility of men to contain. You don't blame electricity for setting fire to the house; you blame the men who wired it poorly. You don't blame lightning for setting fire to the forest, you collect men and put the fire out. The entire state of our culture right now is the result of men allowing the structures they've built to be subverted. Don't blame women. It's a boy's game to blame women.
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[–] stillhavemyforeskin 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago (edited ago)
Agreed, these men won't take a single bit of responsibility for their actions-or lack of action. It's just a coping mechanism, Saying "i'm mgtow" is a nice way of relieving yourself from the constant reminder that you're failing as a man. They're no better than feminists or any of these "new" oppressed groups popping up, in which people place their hands over their ears, shut their eyes, and spout their victimhood nonsense.
Women are shaped by men and that's all there is to it. When the men fail to properly shape women, due to their own faults, they must take responsibility. They have no other choice, whether you think it's fair or not. I know I personally fail as a man, but I will never give in to something as pathetic as mgtow, it's like completely folding your hand and walking away from the game, you might as well commit suicide because you've essentially retired from your one and only job as a human male.