This is more a subset of something that happened with a woman. So I was texting this one woman, she seemed really interested, and she was for the most part, making all the first moves for me, which I found interesting. This happened for around 2-3 weeks. And then all of a sudden, went out of a town for a day, and she decided it wasn't gonna work out. Now I don't personally care, but has Voat encountered similar situations? Some kind of orbiting/long game or something? I feel like current day bitches are just too fucking crazy for me, or maybe it's been so long since i last dated (I was essentially married for close to 10 years), that i have no clue how said dating landscape works anymore.
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[–] 404_SLEEP_NOT_FOUND ago
You must have read the signs wrong, she was never interested to begin with. It was just a low effort gesture (merely picking up her phone and punching out some emotes/text) on her part and you read it as genuine interest.
I would be more eager to force her to meet irl early on. If she says no, good now you know what this bitch really thinks of you. Girls who don't want to meet don't want to fuck and they don't want to fuck because they either have a BF/FB already and/or they don't like you.