This is more a subset of something that happened with a woman. So I was texting this one woman, she seemed really interested, and she was for the most part, making all the first moves for me, which I found interesting. This happened for around 2-3 weeks. And then all of a sudden, went out of a town for a day, and she decided it wasn't gonna work out. Now I don't personally care, but has Voat encountered similar situations? Some kind of orbiting/long game or something? I feel like current day bitches are just too fucking crazy for me, or maybe it's been so long since i last dated (I was essentially married for close to 10 years), that i have no clue how said dating landscape works anymore.
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[–] Gargilius 0 points 29 points 29 points (+29|-0) ago (edited ago)
Easy : you were one of x number of guys she texted in parallel, and you fell out of favor when one (or more) of the others won that round so to speak.
Move on.
[–] Paranoiaattack 0 points 6 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago
Probably this. I found that in talking to women on Tinder and shit, you need to get them to meet in person as quickly as possible and keep it going as often as possible (if you want to lock them down).
Personally, I have just been fucking them and moving on. It's been all the same shit...they want 'adventures'. Which is code for 'I have a short attention span and my life is boring'.
[–] YugeDick 0 points 7 points 7 points (+7|-0) ago
I want to upvoat you for your insight, but I want to downvoat you for indulging sluts and whores. So I'll leave it be and just thank you for your insight. Thanks.
[–] Gargilius 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago
I thought the thing these days was ‘finding themselves’... but I might be one fad - or three - behind.
[–] Super_Cooper 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
Probably this.