This is more a subset of something that happened with a woman. So I was texting this one woman, she seemed really interested, and she was for the most part, making all the first moves for me, which I found interesting. This happened for around 2-3 weeks. And then all of a sudden, went out of a town for a day, and she decided it wasn't gonna work out. Now I don't personally care, but has Voat encountered similar situations? Some kind of orbiting/long game or something? I feel like current day bitches are just too fucking crazy for me, or maybe it's been so long since i last dated (I was essentially married for close to 10 years), that i have no clue how said dating landscape works anymore.
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[–] i_scream_trucks 0 points 3 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago (edited ago)
man i just put it down to having different views on what that shit is supposed to be all about and im really not interested in fucking around. if i could figure out what seems to attract the wrong women when they appeared out of nowhere in the past i might be able to apply it to someone random and see what happens, if that works, well, then im set!
I kind of had the same the other week, got chatted up for a whole day at work by a volunteer who decided she would stand around with me for 8 hours, balled up, played the drink card, came away with at least a facebook contact. Of course a week after that its another one to add to the ghosted list. Problem is, playing possum and saying yes then hiding its not fair game, but pretty much par for the course now. And she was my friggen age too, so it seems its my generation that started this crap. Meh. Bye bye facebook contact, go back to moping about someone else i cant have for a few days, throw myself back at work. Problem solved. Finally racked up a 50 hour week last week, another 35 planned this week... first time in more than a year. Fuck sitting around at home.
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[–] i_scream_trucks ago (edited ago)
Her? Or me? If me, i dont really give two fucks. Ive had my balls stomped on far harder than being toyed with on facebook... her? doubtful, she was a normie-ish person. Either way, who the fuck cares, it wasnt meant to happen.
But yeah we do get fucked around and are expected to just smile sweetly and put up with it. When its random people you dont know thats fine, but when its long time friends that use shitty excuses to not find 5 minutes of their time to say hi for months, well sorry, but fuck you for repeatedly telling me you have kids and a life and yada yada thats called 'excuses' you are using your child as an 'excuse' not to do something you dont want to do..... 30 seconds is all it takes to say 'sorry ive been out of touch, talk soon' being single and childless doesnt mean i have nothing better to do with my time than sit on my ass and wait for people to talk to me. This is why i work 50+ hour weeks, because honestly, what the fuck else am i meant to do?