Was talking to a girl who I thought was level headed. Tell her about event going on that she can come to, was not evening thinking about asking her on a date (as a matter of fact I had no less than 3 girl friends at the time). She responds with "you know i have a bf". She caught me off guard I said "it's not like that". Then I was telling her more about the event and she said Anon I can't go out with you. And since we were talking in passing we had about 2 minutes total to talk she had to go shortly after saying that.
Had no idea this girl was obsessed with herself that she couldn't even understand and want being asked out.