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[–] SOULESS 4 points -2 points (+2|-4) ago 

Yup. Its very easy as an attractive female.

If you are struggling to get dates you should take a few months to put yourself in a strict diet and workout lots. Of you put the effort into your body that you want your dream girl to put into her's, you'll be much more successful in the dating world. One date a month is a reasonable goal for anyone to have while they try to find someone worth while.


[–] 13155019? 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

ESPECIALLY if you are quiet/shy and not actively meeting tons of new people often. FORCE yourself to go on one date a month.

I'm not trying to start shit or anything but, fwiw, you do know what happens when quiet/shy guys try to FORCE themselves into dates, right?


[–] SOULESS 3 points -3 points (+0|-3) ago 

Yes. The same thing that happened to me. I am the type of person who would rather stay in with my dog and play videogames. I never dated meaningfully since I just didn't have the social skills or drive to meet new people.

You have to suck it up and force yourself into leaving your comfort zone. You need to learn how to ask people about who they are, how they got like that, and who they aspire to be. Social skills are very important and if you lack them the sooner you start, the better.

I started awfully late. I'm still anxious about telling the guy who would like to date me that I've not had a first kiss and displays of affection are foreign and uncomfortable for me. But it's something I need to work on or it'll never happen.

Don't encourage people to continue reinforcing their bad habits.