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[–] SOULESS 4 points -3 points (+1|-4) ago 

I disagree with Hand_of_Node, ESPECIALLY if you are quiet/shy and not actively meeting tons of new people often. FORCE yourself to go on one date a month. You'll see some girls out of your league, some under it, and some in. You want to get used to honing in on what traits you need in a partner versus what traits you need to avoid.

I used online dating apps to try and find a decent guy. I just got back from visiting one of them for a weekend platonically and we think we would make a good match.

You're looking for a diamond in a pit of mud. There is one out there, but you gotta keep digging through the trash for her. It doesn't matter where she comes from as long as you get her.


[–] 13153467? 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago 

As a female, you have the privilege of being able to get dates on a predetermined schedule, no questions asked.


[–] CaliforniaOrange 0 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago 

I think most females don’t realize how much they control the dating scene.

They’re the choosers, but many of them assume it’s the same way for guys. It’s not unless they’re rich or famous.


[–] SOULESS 4 points -2 points (+2|-4) ago 

Yup. Its very easy as an attractive female.

If you are struggling to get dates you should take a few months to put yourself in a strict diet and workout lots. Of you put the effort into your body that you want your dream girl to put into her's, you'll be much more successful in the dating world. One date a month is a reasonable goal for anyone to have while they try to find someone worth while.


[–] BigMatteson 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

I know my diamond. She texted me back today, She's 2000 miles away but if she said jump I'd show you all how fast an NC redneck could jump to Montana. I wouldn't even take the cig out my mouth. I hope you find your diamond though. We all deserve our person.