0
4

[–] varialus 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

She's apologizing because she intends to harvest your organs, hopefully only your spare organs.

0
2

[–] Scrooblemeyer 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago  (edited ago)

She was trying to console you about your POS car, and was about to give you a BJ to cheer you up, but you ruined the moment.

0
1

[–] Wuttier 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Listen OP, just don't get raped, robbed, killed, setting you up or anything the likes. Apologizing prematurely is usually a sign of guilt of something about to happen.

If that is not the case, a woman that apologizes too much for nothing is weak. Avoids struggles and hardships is not fit to handle any future offspring or manly things.

[–] [deleted] 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

[Deleted]

0
1

[–] Wuttier 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Godspeed man.

0
1

[–] prairie 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Some people have issues where they fear that people are going to get really angry at them for illegitimate reasons. Instead of facing it, they give into it and project it on everything with everyone. It's sad, but what you did is doing them a favor if they're willing to take it. I would have appreciated this when I was younger living in fear.

[–] [deleted] 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago  (edited ago)

[Deleted]

0
1

[–] prairie 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago  (edited ago)

they fear that people are going to get really angry at them for illegitimate reasons

And because how I grew up, I lived it semi-fear.

Exactly. The "care"-takers abused their power and made the child live in fear of them. Hence the later constant fear and apologies. (just to clarify, the illegitimacy was referring to the person who takes it out on the fearful person, not the fear, which is there for a damn good reason)

My suggestion wasn't to laugh at the person's fear. It's well-founded. But don't dignify the crippling actions that come naturally in response. One path is giving into it, tiptoeing around it, which just legitimizes the contortions. The other is a sort of contradiction to it, which lets it be traced back to the culprits. Coupled with seeking self-knowledge, this in my experience is how it's resolved. I'll make a mockery out of ritualistic interactions, but be there to talk about real stuff

Definitely don't make fun of people for being afraid, but also don't dignify the avoidance by pleading with it that the person doesn't need to be sorry, there's nothing wrong (the words just roll off their deeper self anyway, because it needs this demonstrated, not just said). They've got to get angry at being left with this crippling fear, not try to bargain with it, because it'll just come back the next day with the same effect.

/ramble

0
1

[–] Devore_Imperium 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

I don't get it. Are you bragging that you got a chick to give you a lift? Why would someone apologize for you finishing a beer? What is wrong?

0
0

[–] digitalentity1497 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

0
0

[–] 475677 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

You're a faggot. Seriously she was saying sorry for taking advantage of the situation like she knew you were too intoxicated to drive and was going to do shit to you. All you needed to do was say something along the lines of if you mean it you'd walk me inside and then you could convince her to stay for a drink or at least to tuck you in. She wanted that but you had to be a drunk sperg about things instead of fucking her and making her feel like she took advantage of the situation.

Hang your head in shame faggot and then give her a call in the morning saying sorry for being more wasted than you appeared and that you want to take her out for a coffee or something to say thanks for everything she's done. It's not a total loss at this point unless you want it to be so stop fucking yourself over and send her a message asap.

[–] [deleted] 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago  (edited ago)

[Deleted]

0
0

[–] 475677 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

I've already got a kid so I guess I must be a rapist.

0
0

[–] BoraxTheFungarian 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago  (edited ago)

"Don't be sorry. Just do the right thing."

In this case, chick driving you home... I understand your worry. Perhaps she was more wasted than you realized.