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[–] prairie 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

I think it comes down to whether a person can articulate what they want/need, or can accept having to ask the other person to help them figure out what they're seeking. If a person can't do these things, then every conflict will be about something else, and they will always escalate it beyond words.