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[–] CrustyBeaver52 0 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago 

It is in your chemistry - and it is designed to perpetuate the continuation of the species - it controls you because it is supposed to.

It's hardwired in your DNA - and it happens to everybody.

So you have become attached to a particular person - you can transfer this attachment to another compatible person - in the end the DNA doesn't care so much - most compatible mates will do.

Sometimes if you have children - something similar happens and your devotion transfers to them - this is also in the DNA - to allow you to tolerate all of the shit you will have to go through in order to raise another human.

So get out there and build yourself a family - that is what you are designed to do - and that is what will bring you the greatest satisfaction... live a full life - be fruitful, and multiply.

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[–] TheyLie [S] 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Great write up, thanks for the well thought out response. I lose perspective and intelligence as I'm drowning in it

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[–] CrustyBeaver52 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

and I envy you for it:)

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[–] cyclops1771 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

That's called infatuation. Also linked to fantasy about how life would be so better if only that person were there all the time, 24-7, and never leave. If they were really there 24-7, those feelings would change.

Call it what you will. Love is an ephemeral term. You love your parents. You love your kids. You love your best friend(s). You love your job. Whatever. Love is what you want it to be.

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[–] 9749483? 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

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[–] TheyLie [S] 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Haha good one, it's exactly like that video, how did you know

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[–] TheyLie [S] 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Hurting like how? Like even a paper cut?

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[–] TheyLie [S] 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Damn that insidious gay fagness, always coming out. What do I do, jerk off to some big titty pussy and pound two shots of vodka?

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[–] SquarebobSpongebutt 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

You have an infatuation. Those can become love pretty easy or they can turn into nothing at all. Go down the road and see where it leads. If you are both sitting separately in the same room in 10 years reading books and not talking and you still feel really close to each other you will have your answer as to where it lead. I will be honest. Love is how it feels when you are bored but together so it's cool. Love is how it feels when they are sick and you have to take care of them and clean up after them. Love is how it feels when they are mad at you but you just can't be mad at them because you remembered the time she was arguing with you and just started laughing. Love is a lot of different things all rolled into one. Mostly it is contentment with your situation. Maybe it lasts forever, maybe it doesn't, but just see where things lead and enjoy your life.

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[–] varialus 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Option 1: Go for it, make a fool of yourself, fail, cut off all contact, get over it, go on with life with a bit of extra baggage from your embarrassing failure.

Option 2: Cut off all contact, get over it, go on with life with minor regret that's much less damaging than epic embarrassing failure.

Option 3: Go for it, hit it off, be happy for anywhere frome a short while or a long time. Hope for a smooth end whenever that may come to minimize baggage and regrets.

Option 4: Stay in contact but do nothing, enjoy the drug, suffer through not having her, be happy, be sad, be blind to other girls, maybe be overall happier in your drugged up state, maybe be more miserable in your drugged up state.

Option 5: Do something different or have different results because I'm only a mediocre prophet.

Good luck regardless!

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[–] TheyLie [S] 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

Thanks man (and I just realized how faggy that title is)

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[–] varialus 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Meh, I don't think it's that retarded or gay. The drugged up feeling can range from a simple reassuring feeling all the way to so super fucked up that people will murder or even take a whole empire to war. Yeah it can sound whiny to people who haven't been super fucked up with it, and yeah, the general masculine response to all emotion is to just suck it up, but honestly if it's a real problem and you're having a hard time sucking it up, talking likely may help to some degree.

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[–] 9749393? 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Why not both? Could also be neither, FWIW.

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