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[–] 2nddammit 0 points 161 points (+161|-0) ago 

No kids. This is a good thing. Now you don't have to spend the rest of your life with crazy.

Make the split as amicable as possible. Continue your plans to better your situation and work on yourself. Once the divorce is over, don't ever contact her again. Live you life and be thankful for the opportunity to improve it.

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[–] Firevine [S] 0 points 79 points (+79|-0) ago 

No kids, and we rent.

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[–] RonBennington 0 points 57 points (+57|-0) ago 

Jackpot!

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[–] Nately 0 points 10 points (+10|-0) ago 

So glad to hear that. Do y'all have a prenuptial?

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[–] BlackLivesMatter111 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Honestly, though, if you don't want kids - if you aren't seriously discussing having children within the first year of your marriage, you're gonna have a bad time.

Everyone I've known who hasn't made serious plans for children either before marriage or quickly thereafter is divorced. I know it sounds like horrible advice, but children keep a marriage together. If you don't want to have children with a woman you're married to, you might as well just date.

No kids is a big red flag for a failing marriage.

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[–] GentleGorzog 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

This dude, 2nddammit, just said what I wanted to say. Only 10 times shorter. I bow to him. And then I shut up.

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[–] 22jam22 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

very good advice. But be a real man get a dog!

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[–] 2nddammit 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

Cats are often easier when you rent. I'm a dog person, but I did adopt a cat from my friend when he got married. That cat was a badass and loved the hell out of me. To bad I couldn't clone him.