Don't know what to think. Don't know what to feel.
I don't make a ton of money right now, but I've been working hard on building a life for us anyway, and now making the moves to go to the local tech school. It seems wasted. Maybe not though, because most "home" things like pots and pans, towels, etc were paid for by me. She'd have next to nothing if I took everything I paid for. I'm the one with money in savings.
Two longtime close friends both asked me if she'd been brainwashed by her mother. Could very well be the case, since the letter she wrote mentioned religion a handful of times.
She left after a minor little spat, and comes back with this.
Her letter was completely unreasonable, taking zero blame for any of our minor, normal problems, and stating that we're "different people" (No shit. Everyone is different people.)
Basically I get blamed for everything, get told it's due to her "finding her faith again", and then she leaves with the dammed cat.
I want to work things out, but I don't know if I could ever trust her again. Since she took off with the cat, I can only think that if we ever had kids, she'd just up and roll with them one day too.
I'm trying to combat irrationality with logic and level headedness, but it's a hard fight.
Her actions are proving my previously minor complaints correct, and I kind of hate that.
Voat, you're pretty alright.
Edit: I want to say thanks for all the advice and well wishes. This is crushing. We rarely even fight, so I am very confused. Thanks for everything, folks. It really helps when I couldn't even get my mom to answer the phone.