Archived Does anyone else feel like the nice guy hate is just a way to shit on nerds and autistic people? (whatever)
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Archived Does anyone else feel like the nice guy hate is just a way to shit on nerds and autistic people? (whatever)
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The reason, IMO, is because a lot of people can't accept the idea of guys being genuinely altruistic, and would have a big part of their belief structure broken if they thought otherwise. That's why feminists and PUA/TRPers are united in hating nice guys, adn why so much of the nice guy hate comes from those groups... because they both can't stand men displaying altruism. Feminists believe that men are innately bad and selfish, so any apparent altruism on a man's part MUST have evil ulterior motices. PUAs/TRPers usually believe that altruism either doesn't exist at all and is only self-deception, or that it is bad, weak behavior.
There's also the tinfoil possibility, that hating on nice guys is done in order to discourage altruism and mutual aid for each other, in order to make us more dependent on controlling organizations.