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[–] ABACABB ago 

Keep your head up. The first few months after pot are going to play some tricks on you. Did the crazy dreams go away yet? Your brain is just readjusting to different stimulus. I found exercise is a good way to curb that bored/sad feeling in the months after quitting.

As for a job you said the family is fine on your wife's salary. That's a great thing to have so cherish it. This allows you to find something you actually like to do. Then you need to find out how to make money off of it. Or just be happy being a dad.

Shit I'm jealous as fuck that you get to stay home with kids and the house. And that leads me to answer your question. When I'm in transitional periods trying to figure out the next step I take a different perspective. Not just one different perspective but many. Often time this will lead me realizing where I'm at is just fine or push me towards something new. Take your parents perspective--wife's, kids, buddies' perspective. It may lead you to a new exciting place or make you appreciate the wonderful life you've built.

Now go drink a beer and mow the lawn!

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[–] JeepGuy79 [S] ago 

I've got fake grass in the yard...there's no real grass in the desert man! The dreams have gotten better...but still really vivid and crazy sometimes. I will start looking at things from a different angle. Thanks for the kind words and good advice!

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[–] ABACABB ago 

What kind do you have? I've been thinking of getting the fake stuff but worried about it getting too hot to walk on bare foot in the summer. Is that the case with it?