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[–] Dellingr [S] ago 

Engaged - 3 years postponed - for work and debt Yes, but circumstances regarding work and debt shifted her timeline back Apartment, but I am moving for work soon and she will have to finish up here for 8 months before she would come out and join me.

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[–] carnold03 ago 

Three years is a long time to be engaged. Reads like she's telling you that her and her career ambitions will be coming before any relationship she might have with you. If you're not ok with that now, don't expect yourself to feel any better about it later. It's good that you're figuring these things out now, before marriage, than realizing them after with kids.

The only thing I would advise is that when you make the move, make it a clean break, financially and physically. Put all the utilities into her name two months before you move, so she has minimal difficulties should any service problems arise and have stop having sex with her a month before that so you'll know she can't pull the parent trap on you. Best of luck to you.