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[–] ooli 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago 

Still look like a soft dump from the outside. Use your time alone to better yourself. Be your own individual, not a simple part of a couple. You have one great thing going for you, that your gf does not have: You know exactly what you want in a relationship. And you know it is not living apart from the person you love. That's great. See all this as an opportunity for YOU to be alone, get friend, spend time with them, do the stuff you enjoy alone, or with people you want to reconnect with. You're in for good times. Try not to see your gf too often, because it will only make her feel more "controlled". Let her call you. And do not wait for those calls.

Best case scenario: your own independence will seduce/convince her back. Best case scenario 2: You'll discover new hobbies, friends and you'll meet someone who'd love to live with you.

What will NEVER happen: she dump you because you're TOO distant. She made it clear It will NEVER happen. So anyway put some distance.