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[–] 7im 0 points 14 points (+14|-0) ago 

I was engaged to someone for about 2 1/2 years back in the day (2009) and we lived together the whole time. At one point she wanted to move out and ended up using the same examples that your gf gave you. She said stuff about wanting to be independent and since she moved straight from her parents to my house she thought she'd grow up more to have her own responsibilities. Within a month of her being moved out I found out she was cheating on me with her boss from work. She used moving out as a way to cheat on me. I was sad for a while but I am fine now and in a much healthier relationship where the spark has never gone out.

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[–] ooli 1 point 6 points (+7|-1) ago  (edited ago)

the tell tale sign in OP story is the "don't ask with who I plan to go for the we". The "not good enough gf" also point toward cheating and culpability.

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[–] revofire 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

This. Do you know how innocent that question sounded? It could be viewed as controlling but really it's not. Even on a suspicious level it's not controlling. Seriously. She's fucking with you. And other people. She's going to fuck them too.