I just don't know what to think anymore. She said that she still had feelings for her ex and wasn't interested/didn't feel the same way. I swallowed my pride, took it on the chin, and moved on. The very next day she messages me telling how much she loves me. I change the subject and ask her how her day was. We talk for a hour or two, Tell her I need some sleep. She says "Get some rest hun."
I don't know what to think anymore,,, Anyone been in a situation like this? Any advice? If you want any more info feel free to ask.
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[–] bisaya 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
She's using you for comfort, something she feels is a safe and reliable to come back to. You threatened that by telling her your feelings and she is now attempting damage control. She's not sure yet how far she'd go to keep you but one thing is for sure: she's not interested in you the way you want her to be.
Now your decision to make is: do you want to continue to be her friend, her comfort zone?
Make sure you understand what that brings. She's going to be so near yet so far away. She may change her mind later on about you but note that you're not first choice and, if that happens, it's not going to happen anytime soon. You're going to hear all about her relationships and help her through some rough times which, frankly, should be her problem and opportunity to grow, not your burden to carry.