I just don't know what to think anymore. She said that she still had feelings for her ex and wasn't interested/didn't feel the same way. I swallowed my pride, took it on the chin, and moved on. The very next day she messages me telling how much she loves me. I change the subject and ask her how her day was. We talk for a hour or two, Tell her I need some sleep. She says "Get some rest hun."
I don't know what to think anymore,,, Anyone been in a situation like this? Any advice? If you want any more info feel free to ask.
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[–] KinkRaven 0 points 2 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago (edited ago)
It's because you walked away and didn't act like a pussy that she turned around and feels she now has to qualify herself to you.
If you had broken down or tried to appeal to her she would not have messaged you like that, it's because you acted like mature person that you increased your sexual market value to her.
This is referred to as a comfort test and you did the right thing by not engaging right away, by showing her that your are your own person and not an extension of her will. Shit test will probably come once she feels she has qualified herself to you again, then she'll do something kind of mean towards you, ignore it and if it continues walk away.
This doesn't mean she is a bad person or anything like that, it's just the a way to feel out if your are worth investing her time into. My advice is to continue to focus on yourself, do not give into the impulse to place her on a pedestal. Talk to her, not down to her, and remember you are your own person, with your own goals and it's that what makes you attractive to her.
Yes, every single man throughout the history has gone through this and we all were just as confused as you are.