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[–] Fckmylife [S] 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago  (edited ago)

But I'm interested in knowing if you hated him because he did something bad when he was drunk, or just simply because he got drunk too often and had a problem he didnt seem to care about resolving?

Im asking because Im never mean or bad to to my son when Im drunk or sober (like many alchoholics) and want to know.. I dont seem to reach the bottom where no more and need the truth

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[–] Fckmylife [S] 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago  (edited ago)

My parents were 100% neglecting and allways let our syblings feel like shit so we tryed not to be in their way. Often beaten up when seen or heard.. I moved away from home at 14, alive not like my syster. And I dont have any examples of how a parent should be, just how not too but I dont think its enough. I think I try too much to be the oposite of neglecting, probable my son will soon feel like Im suffocating him + the drinking.. poor guy, and he is allways so kind and fun and doesnt deserve it :(

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[–] Fckmylife [S] 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago  (edited ago)

I just read what I wrote and I think it allmost seems I'm to be felt sorry for so I want to make clear that: I can live where I want, I can do pretty much what I want.. My son has no options, he has to live with me or strangers. I've told him though that if he were to be bullyed and it wasnt resolved in a month or two we would move and he has more to say about where we live then me, because its easyer for me with a car and not a school distric..

He cant use any substances like me to make him feel better, not even use his computer as much as he likes.. He doesnt even have a single sybling, to talk to and for help :( and sometimes he gets up in the mornings and his mom is drunk. And he seems ok with it, just once in a while and we are close and good friends.. but physically and even sexually abused children also seem ok with their parents?

Maybe Im a monster fckn up my kid. At least nobody has answered yet that he had ok childhood with alchoholic parent.