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[–] Spacehuman 1 point 9 points (+10|-1) ago 

I think men are generally 'born that way'. Women tend to have a sexual preference - which is fluid. Man tend to have a sexual orientation - which is rigid. Women do 'switch teams' whereas men are not wired to do so.

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[–] ForgotMyName 2 points 3 points (+5|-2) ago 

Strange, now that you mentioned it, I've had the same experience. Anecdotally, the gay guys that I've known since they were kids were pretty gay when they were kids. The lesbians, were all over the place. Girls that only dated girls in high school are married to guys now. Girls that I'd never have guessed were gay are now lesbians.

Not even going to pretend like this is remotely scientific, but it's just interesting that my own observations happen to align with it.

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[–] cynoclast 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago  (edited ago)

I think women are just prettier, even to other women. They haven't been called 'the fairer sex' for eons for no reason.

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[–] o_V_o 1 point 0 points (+1|-1) ago 

I think both are fluid, but men are socialized to be rigid, women aren't.... and it goes all the way back to the simple fact that homosexuality in women isn't a threat to the population the same way it is in men (btw, that's why the church was against it... fewer birth means fewer followers)... lesbians can always be over-powered when reproduction is absolutely necessary or vacant uteri are in short demand. On the other hand, with exception to something like raping them in their sleep, gay men aren't much use in this regard.

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[–] Broc_Lia 2 points 0 points (+2|-2) ago 

Wut?