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[–] EffYouJohnPodesta 2 points 4 points (+6|-2) ago 

Exactly. My ex is the latter an autogynephile so I have to suffer with the shame of his problems even now. For a long time i thought he wanted to be a woman but as I do more research into it it's clear these guys don't really want to give up their genitals, they'd much rather rape and control women. As long as they have their fantasies and their clothing fetishes and sex toys and they can hurt someone else they are good to go. When you take away the object of their abuse, they threaten murder, suicide, and they start trying to find ways to destroy the other person. Hence the sex offender stat. There are so many examples of these dudes becoming violent, murderous or rapists. Have you heard about that SanFran library exhibit with the bats, axes, and bloody wife beater shirts that say to kill terfs?

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[–] Piscina 1 point 1 point (+2|-1) ago  (edited ago)

I'm so sorry you were married to one. I have read accounts of women married to autogynephiles and the gaslighting and other abuse is terrible. This is a good website https://gendertrender.wordpress.com

Yes, I read about the San Fran library and its Kill a TERF display.

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[–] EffYouJohnPodesta 2 points -1 points (+1|-2) ago 

I think I saw that link before via FB group. Not sure, will check it out. =) Thank you.

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[–] 1111_devotion ago 

Did he ever want you to fist him or use strap ons on him?

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[–] EffYouJohnPodesta 1 point 0 points (+1|-1) ago 

not the former but the latter yes, but I did not do it. He raped me during our divorce though.