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[–] TerriChris [S] 0 points 112 points (+112|-0) ago 

Then he divorces her and the judge still gives the cheater the kids, 18 years of his income, and over half his stuff. Awesome. Where's the line to get married?

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[–] HamsterSlayer 0 points 24 points (+24|-0) ago 

It's the same line that forks to crippling alcoholism and depression if things don't go your way

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[–] REALJOHNCENA69 0 points 43 points (+43|-0) ago 

Tip: just skip marriage and fall into the pit of alcoholism and depression

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[–] KinkRaven 0 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago  (edited ago)

It took the glory road instead, and it lead me to pussy and plunder.

Best move I ever made. Go lift bra and enjoy the decline while it lasts.

All good times come to an end.

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[–] jackofdiamonds 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Problem is, being single your whole life isn't much better for those things. What we need is a much stronger social net for men. I googled "Men's meetup group" in my city, and there were like six of them, and every single one was a cruiser function for gay men. I don't care that those events exist, but there should also be platonic events for straight men to hash shit out at. The only thing I can think of that is even close to that description is the pickup artist scene. Society wants to destroy pickup, but it doesn't want to replace it with anything.

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[–] DigitalRefugee 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago  (edited ago)

~if~

When.

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[–] Moonbat 0 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago  (edited ago)

If this ever happens to me it will result in a murder-suicide. Fortunately, I'm not stupid enough to get married again.

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[–] Crensch 1 points 2 points (+3|-1) ago 

I'm not entirely sure why this doesn't happen more save that men are particularly susceptible to shaming from cunts if they haven't been redpilled.

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[–] RedLeader 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

That's the point. There shouldn't be one. Make way for Communism by destroying all incentive for marriage through unfair laws.

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[–] Rottcodd 0 points 85 points (+85|-0) ago 

When a man cheats on his wife, it's because he's an asshole.

When a woman cheats on her husband, it's because he's an asshole.

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[–] AHyde 0 points 41 points (+41|-0) ago 

And when a attractive man stays single, it's because he's an asshole.

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[–] Crensch 0 points 29 points (+29|-0) ago  (edited ago)

And when a man with money doesn't give it to women, it's because he's an asshole.

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[–] jackofdiamonds 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

Men are pretty much assholes. Maybe we should just reappropriate the word, the way gays did with "queer."

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[–] ratsmack 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

It's a win-win situation then.

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[–] Omnipresent 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

When you accept that we are all assholes, you become much happier.

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[–] Gargilius 0 points 11 points (+11|-0) ago 

...and save on attorney fees! :-)

(where do you get such cheap houses?...)

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[–] christ93 0 points 28 points (+28|-0) ago  (edited ago)

I for one will not be getting married again(male here). There is nothing in it for me. I lost half of my stuff, half of my money and go from having my daughter in my life daily to two weekends a month and every other Friday. And as a final fuck you from the ex she took the kid to Georgia. Kinda puts a crimp on visitation. My current situation is that I have a live in that has no desire to get married and we get along great.

Edit: The final fuck you.

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[–] Semillas 0 points 17 points (+17|-0) ago 

Just make sure you don't live in a state that recognizes "common-law marriage," otherwise, should things go south with your current woman, you might repeat the process all over again.

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[–] christ93 0 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago  (edited ago)

That was the first thing I checked. No common law marriage where I live.

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[–] Porphyrogennetos 0 points 7 points (+7|-0) ago  (edited ago)

I live in Canada, you can't escape Common Law here.

6 Months cohabitation and she can take half your shit.

SIX FUCKING MONTHS - No marriage.

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[–] christ93 1 points 19 points (+20|-1) ago 

Not really as her current husband is physically abusive to her and that is a gift that just keeps on giving. Why she puts up with the abuse is beyond me. He and I had a conversation about my daughter where I reminded him that I own 20 acres in the middle of nowhere and I have enough firepower to fight a small bush war.

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[–] bob3333 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Transporting children across state lines without the permission of the other custodial parent is a serious federal crime.

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[–] christ93 1 points 5 points (+6|-1) ago  (edited ago)

My daughter is grown and gone and lives a mile away from me. She basically told her mother to fuck off and lived with me for a year after she turned 18 and I helped her get on her feet. Another gift that keeps on giving as she wants nothing to do with her mother. Yeah, I could have thrown her in jail for some time or just wait for the daughter to get fed up with things and want nothing to do with her mother. I tend to play a long game.

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[–] Voat_a_Goat_Mamma 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

Not if both parents have custody.

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[–] josemon 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago  (edited ago)

I agree. Getting married is like signing a bad contract. Why would anyone do that? Then women start complaining, calling us "boys" not "men" enough to marry them. Fucking cunts are getting what they asked for.

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[–] CrazyInAnInsaneWorld 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

It's not 'like' signing a bad contract, it literally is signing a bad contract. You are literally entering into a contract in which only one side (Protip: It's not you, if you're the male) will have their terms enforced by the courts...and even worse, those same courts selectively enforcing said contract will hold you above and beyond your side of the deal.

Other than that, I agree. Currently in a LTR with a traditional-type woman, and she knows my stance on marriage. She's pissed as hell at the women who spoiled the system that would have ensured she could settle down early and have started a family. Now, she just gets half the experience of being a decent housewife. Meanwhile, I'm just glad she knows how to keep a good house and please me. It probably helps that she was raised by her Grandmother, much like I was raised by my Gramps.

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[–] roznak 4 points 22 points (+26|-4) ago 

When a male cheats, that is somehow expected and actually accepted.

But hidden in plain view, women have always been cheating behind the back of the husbands at the same rate or even more than males cheat. They are just better at hiding it.

All females that I have know, and it is quit a few, have cheated on their partner. And those that claim that they partner did not cheat, then look how your relationship got formed. It probably started because either you, she or both cheated on their previous partner.

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[–] Empress 2 points 35 points (+37|-2) ago 

I waited until I was 36 to get married and would never cheat. It's just not within the realm of possibilities. I know other women that are the same and we discuss the importance of fidelity. None of my girlfriend's would ever accept me cheating on my husband...we hold ourselves to a standard. Of course I notice attractive men, but I do not engage. I'm sorry that so many people suck and I'm sad that many people view marriage as disposable these days.

If anyone reading this is thinking about cheating just a word of advice...finish the old before you begin the new. Cheating will destroy your spouses trust in the opposite sex- don't put someone through that.

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[–] the-gerbil-in-my-bum 3 points 12 points (+15|-3) ago 

nice NAWALT you have there

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[–] FishBoneFredd 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago 

Cheating will destroy your spouses trust in the opposite sex

Words of wisdom.

A different perspective on the same note, any relationship born from mistrust will end in mistrust.

I especially grieve for my brother-in-law's child.

My brother-in-law cheated on his 10 year girl friend. This relationship eventually led to a child and eventual marriage. He committed adultery with another which led to a second marriage and another child.

His current current wife desperately struggles with his child from the previous marriage because, even as the major care-giver, she's not allowed to parent because of the child's father-and-mother relationship. On top of that, my brother-in-law projects a grudge against his own child because the he needs special care that my bother-in-law can't manage without his ex-wife's cooperation.

His family is a house of cards, built upon a foundation of fallen cards, and the strain upon their marriage is painfully obvious. Ultimately, the ones who suffer are his children, because of his continuous infidelity.

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[–] RobertWalker 1 points 1 points (+2|-1) ago 

Goddamn, I could actually seriously contemplate a relationship if the majority of women thought like this.

I got tired of investing my heart in, only to find she'd been getting railed by multiple guys for 6 months into the relationship because we were "not serious yet".

These days I'm cynical and don't invest, just have fun but I yearn for a world where we see one peraon at a time. Would be so much more love.

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[–] M1 9 points 1 points (+10|-9) ago 

And there's nothing wrong with open relationships as long as everyone is on the same page.

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[–] Kylan 1 points 2 points (+3|-1) ago 

You don't have much faith in people, do you?

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[–] roznak 9 points -3 points (+6|-9) ago 

You can't hold back the force of love when it hits you. You cannot prevent that you will cheat if you do not have enough experience to know that you are already crossing the threshold. Only after you made the mistake, you know that you went too far.

You could of course argue that "common sense" will prevent you from cheating. But when love strikes, "common sense" is shut down. You are not even aware that you are going too far.

I am not referring to chronic cheaters. These people are fully aware that they cheat. These are the people that you should kick out as fast as possible.

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[–] KinkRaven 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

They are actually terrible at it, it's just that men will fucking lie to themselves harder than women do over cheaters.

It goes deeper than that too, a successful Alpha male doesn't have to settle for one woman and they will share men rather than be with a beta (ie nice guys).

It comes down to funny enough to traditional gender roles. If you don't want your wife to chest on you then you have to start out on the correct path from the very start.

They are looking for a protector and provider, and they will split those roles up between as many men as they possibly can.

Alpha fucks and beta bucks. You get to choose which one you fall into and this article is absolutely correct.

If you end up as a beta bucks walking ATM with no sex, it is absolutely your fault.

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[–] roznak 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

Yep you have it correct.

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[–] cpoakes 1 points 18 points (+19|-1) ago 

Marriage is thoroughly broken and has been for decades. I don't know why my queer brothers and sisters fought so hard for this bankrupt institution.

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[–] CrazyInAnInsaneWorld 0 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago 

To be fair, I think the isolation from the primary effects of the institution have kept them from realizing just how broken it is. Grass on the other side of the fence, and all that. When you don't get to experience it for yourself, you don't see the shortcomings as readily.

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[–] cpoakes 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

Yes, too much idealization (even in the face of the realities of straight friends). The impending gay divorce boom is predictable. And most of them will not have pre-nups...

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[–] Totenglocke 0 points 16 points (+16|-0) ago 

It's wrong for men to cheat, but perfectly acceptable for women to cheat. Boy, rape culture and patriarchy sure are rough on women!

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[–] Nazibot13 4 points 13 points (+17|-4) ago  (edited ago)

Girls grow up sluts now days and when they get married they don't want to stop.

If your wife cheats on you beat the shit out of her and leave her . I've never laid a finger on a women in my life, but if my wife cheats on me there's a good chance she'll simply disappear.

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[–] Imadumbass 1 points 11 points (+12|-1) ago 

Well hello fellow muslim!

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[–] goblin_ghost 2 points 6 points (+8|-2) ago 

See, that's where you're wrong. Don't beat the shit out of her, just make sure she understands that you will coldly and openly murder the man, refuse to plead guilty, and make her go through trial where your attorney will repeatedly publicly blame her for the other man's death. Then head into jail for the rest of your life where you can lift weights and read and get some fucking quiet for goddamned once.

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[–] ScreaminMime 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Get some quiet? You've never been locked up have you?

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