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[–] CameraCode 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Also, I mentioned elsewhere in this thread it’s not really my problem to fix.

This is a terrible attitude to have. She is your friend, right? Don't you care about your friends? You don't have to save the marriage (that may already be dead), but you have an obligation to get your friend on a better path. She is going to be a divorced woman who spends her time doing volunteer service programs and "looking for adventure". She is going to die bitter and alone without a husband or children if she keeps this up. Are you upset with the state of the clown world? This is your opportunity to fix it. None of us can stand idlely by.

Maybe read some of Empress' stuff or ask her for advice as well, she has good advice for women.

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[–] Trasheconomy [S] ago 

She’s not my girlfriend and I’m not really gonna exert that much effort into the situation. Also what do I say? Like, everything else in her life doesn’t affirm what I’m saying except the consequences, so I figure just let the consequences happen?

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[–] CameraCode ago 

she's not my girlfriend

Yeah, I thought you said she was your friend. Is that not the case? Or is it that you just want to fuck her? What kind of friend are you that you give up immediately when it gets tough? Do you think the world and society sucks? That's because it's filled with people who say "it's not my problem, I'm not going to exert that much effort into it".

She's not going to learn from the consequences, women never do. They need to be forced into alignment. That is what she wants, in another comment you said she doesn't like her husband because he doesn't call her out or tell her no. She came from a divorced (single mom?) family and hates her dad. She has never had any guidance in her life. She has never had anyone to tell her no or call her out on terrible ideas or behavior. She's already going to be divorced at a very young age, and if she stays on the path she is on she WILL die alone and bitter without any children. At least give it a good solid attempt to help her, because so far it sounds like you haven't don't that.

Now, as for what you say, tell her she needs to re-examine where her life is going. Tell her what we have all told her, and do not sugar-coat it in any way. Ask her if she wants to be married and loved by someone, because a good man is NOT going to take some used up whore who divorced her first husband after a few months just to travel around and get fucked. Make sure to stress this. Women think "Oh, there's no urgency, I can just do whatever I want until it's time to settle down, and I can find a man that will love me and take care of me at some point. I'm so young, I need to experience life while I can!". Using travel as an excuse to have sex is not life. I can't tell you exactly what to say, because I would need to know a lot more about her, but you should use this thread as guidance. We're being harsh because you need it, just like she does. And again, do not sugar coat it. Don't use it as an excuse to insult her.