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[–] stillhavemyforeskin 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago  (edited ago)

I feel like getting married and not having children IMMEDIATELY is a mistake. I understand the financial burden and people wanting to be as prepared as possible, but all of the happiest married people I know in my life didn't plan their lives like this. In fact, a lot of them had children before they got married. Children are the glue that holds the relationship together. Quite frankly, I don't understand the point of being married if children aren't involved.

On top of that, it's flawed logic to think: "I'll get a divorce, date around and try "some" new guys, and eventually settle down for good with one of them." Why not settle down with the guy you're currently with? I imagine it's because she simply wants to relive the honey moon phase (that initial dopamine rush of love) over and over again. This is all thanks to our clown world feminism movement and the brain washing of our women. Men are willing to devote their lives to a single woman, but women on the other hand have been taught to break this oath, break this sacred bond, and go do what... sleep around? How empowering.

Anyway, tell her to make babies and stop being a slut. Tell her husband that if he actually loves her and this whole thing isn't some charade than he better man the fuck up and not throw this away.

Also, you sure you're not in love with her?