Having being brainwashed over centuries with individualism instead of being loyal to people (beware to people not to your people) the foundation was laid to create chaos and destruction, thus justifying more and heavier surveillance.
Similarly not admitting that your idea may be wrong or your actions could be insulting for others or even worse hurt others (I mean physically, not mentally) is also something to be considered. Sit down for a second and think about everything that reminds you, that you should be able to do what you want, when you want. I support that, but what they leave out of the equation is, that with everything you do, you should also have respect for others and that your moral compass should not allow you to run over other peoples minds. Now, the ones complaining that they were hurt because of your actions is similarly destructive. If they were adults, we could have an adult conversation of why they were hurt and if they were really honest to themselves, they would realize, that the answer is not simply
You hurt my feelings
You're a fucktard
There is no general answer to that. It could even be, that you did really fuck up somehow.
People should be taught, that they indeed could be wrong and admitting failure is not defeat. Its that fucking stubbornness that's creating chaos. On both sides!