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[–] worthlesshope 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Probably rebellion.. combined with learning from her peers. I'm more of the belief that kids don't really learn from their family, but learn from their community. If their community doesn't respect family then they wont respect family, she also probably got the idea in her head to really show how much she hates how she grew up she will date black men to piss off her parents. With her parents continuing to be "against" the idea only proves that she was right. Eventually it becomes like a fetish.

If she's still a teen probably the best option for her is to move to an exclusively white area, with white peers who she can see as role models. But the other problem which can't be solved is media, luckily she sounds like an idiot so it might be easy to control what type of media she sees as well.