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[–] 0fsgivin 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Does his wife support her dating black men?

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[–] SurfinMindWaves ago 

No, but I've not asked her for specifics about what she has said to her about it.

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[–] 0fsgivin 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago  (edited ago)

Well, im sure it does happen. But that is absolutely the exception not the rule.

And in most cases were dad seems to be doing great. The thing they fail at is not policing what the mom is supporting and sometimes the mom is giving support without the dad even knowing.

My dad was great. But the one thing he failed at was not standing up to my mother. He was classic boomer that thought he had to defer to his wife when it came to his kids. And now neither me nor my sister have been married or have kids.

And most people were surprised to learn my mom was abusive. People had no idea until she finally attacked my uncle's truck with a hatchet.