Lurker since before the Fattit outcry, first time poster and in great need of venting
Context:
My sister's sister in law, Hamona, is the obeast-est person I know. Full of fatlogic. Menopause at 30, has chronic pain in every joint, breathing problems and its skin has dark patches that I think are a prelude to beetus. It gave up on doctors (it's probably mutual). It has a daughter, 17yo, also obese, that has gone full FA and keeps posting pictures telling the world how 'fucking beautiful' she is and all that crap. Hamona also thinks I'm bulimic because I eat lots of 'bad' food on family gatherings and remain a slim shitlady. The concept of "once in a while" is lost to it.
Rant:
I really don't care much about this cemetery of ravioli, I see it only a few times a year, on birthdays and such, and hardly talk to it in these occasions. But today it behaved as the most disgusting, uncontrollable greedy addict and I really need to vent.
Today, my family got together for the birthday of one of my nieces. Hamona was there because it's the girls' aunt. Being an afternoon party there were only pastries, cake, cupcakes and the like. My eldest niece has Crohn's disease and, I don't know why or how that works, but she can't eat sugary things, so my mother got out and bought a pack of half a dozen ham-and-cheese mini-sandwiches for her.
When my mother set the open package on the table, in front of my niece, this beast reached out across the table, took one and swallowed almost without chewing. I explained the situation and said that my niece couldn't eat anything else, because of her condition. Hamona just said 'oh' and didn't even apologise. It knew why the mini-sandwiches were there, I didn't need to explain. I just did it hoping to shame her because... it was fucking shameful behaviour!!!
Ten minutes later IT TAKES ANOTHER ONE! I took the package, put it on my niece's lap and told her to keep it there. I looked right in the eyes of Hamona and said, with a badly repressed anger, "This food is not for you". The answer? "Oh, yeah, I forgot".
No you didn't. You didn't forget, you damned lard Gollum, you cannot hold yourself. You are so sick and doomed that even while gorging on cake and pastries you can't hold yourself from stealing the only food this child is able to eat without getting ill. I didn't say any of this, but I spent the rest of the afternoon making comments about how great not being fat is and how I would rather kill myself than become overweight.
I would like to think that Hamona got the message, but beasts like her are hopeless.
TL:DR: Femayo steals my niece's food twice because lack of self control and greed.
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[–] NoFatPinUps [S] 0 points 13 points 13 points (+13|-0) ago
Unfortunately, I have a doormat personality. I'm working on it but I'm still very passive. The best I could do was to put the box out of reach and throw several fatshaming comments.
And the speed... The speed at which it moved to grab the sandwich. Like a fat Bilbo moving to take the ring. Such a miserable, infuriating creature.
[–] VegetarianZombie1 2 points -2 points 0 points (+0|-2) ago
A doormat personality? Are you so fucking passive that you won't stand up for a child whose only source of lunch is being willfully and maliciously stolen out of her mouth?! That's beyond doormat.
If you allow her to steal food from a child with minimal consequence, she knows she can do whatever she wants to you. Grow a spine and ban her from your house and any family events you're in charge of. If she shows up, tell her she has thirty seconds to leave before you call the cops. Extreme? Maybe, but have some self respect and a care for those who can't stand up for themselves like your niece and show the lard you won't be bullied any longer! The time for being nice has passed.