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[–] cmor88 3 points 4 points (+7|-3) ago 

If asking a question is grounds for being banned, then so be it. I would be disappointed though, because if thats the case then the mods here aren't really any different from the mods on the other site and I really wouldn't care to be subjected to leadership that is less intelligent than myself.

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[–] Swole_is_life 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

It's a valid question for a newbie and honestly I'm jealous that you have had such little experience with fatties that the answer isn't obvious. You're getting a lot of downvotes because most of us here have seen many, many hams "trying" to lose weight but only for attention or as a reason to eat more.

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[–] cmor88 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

I don't get out much other than to go to work.

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[–] EarthquakesAreScary 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Yep. Part of the bitterness is having seen this happen again, and again, and again. Putting yourself out there to help people because they claim that they're "really" trying. It eventually just sounds like any addict talking about how going light on their dose today means that they're making a great change that's going to pay off tomorrow. Addicts going to addict, and you don't give them praise until they're actually clean.