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[–] FatShamingShitLady ago 

Yeah, personal beliefs are personal for that reason lol. I'm pro-choice and while the use of condoms and contraceptives has never left me with a little problem, I am always sure to limit my partners to men who agree and are as comfortable as I am with the pro-choice options. I would never have a fling with a guy who was against abortion because it would not be worth hurting him to that degree if something happened, just for sex. Open and honest communication is very important when it comes to sex, and I honour the people I am with even if it is only for a moment. It is about respecting your partner. That is also a deeply personal belief, but I agree that bringing a child into the world unprepared is a terrible idea and I refuse to do that myself. But it hasn't been an issue in the past 8 years, so I am not too worried.

As for not wanting your partner to have experienced anyone else so intimately, I find that to be too close to a desire to own your partner or their body. That's just how I see it, and I don't mean that to invalidate your belief, I'm just enjoying the conversation. I don't care who my men sleep with or how many people have experiences them intimately, because it is his body and it is his choice who he allows to feel intimate with. I do not own him and it is not my decision or right to decide ow many people he should be allowed to experience. I expect and have always received that same respect from the men I have shared myself with, long or short term. I think another key is finding a partner with similar values as yourself. You would want a more "virtuous" person and likewise that person would value "virtue," while I would prefer a more open person and therefor someone who values that openness in both of us. Another great thing about so many people in this world, there is no shortage of either breed.

Religion, again, personal, and untouchable our of respect.

I want to take a moment just to thank you and tell you that I appreciate being able to have a conversation like tis without it being all uppity and argumentative. It's nice to be able to hear about different views as a positive experience and feel unthreatened. It's a bit sad that that is so exceptional, but I'm sure you've had you fair share of crazy internet arguers :P Cheers for being cool.

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[–] sonic_sabbath 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Thank you as well for the interesting viewpoints :)

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[–] FatShamingShitLady ago 

I love this community <3