Like the title says, my mom likes to shame me for having a few flings and boyfriends and whatnot. To be honest I am a ho, I am a 19yo shitlady in college, its probably more shameful if I do not fool arround, and my mom likes to shame me for it.
I decided to turn the tide on her and say things like "you're single, why don't you date a little?" And follow it with "you're going to have to lose some weight though if you want to be successful". Sometimes when she says something that she knows bothers me and that I don't find funny like " oh, who's this? Mr February?" Or "why don't you eat some meat you're a little too skinny" I'll just tell her "why don't you lose some weight?"
Yeah it's a fucking war in my house, although I'm winning, she joined medifast and has lost five pounds since I started shaming, sooo....
I want to forgive everyone for my grammar, I learned English, as a third lenguage, from valley girls
Edit: for all you shitlord worried about me, yes I am being safe, I'm on birth control and condoms. I'm a ho not an idiot (or a landwhale).
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[–] sonic_sabbath ago
Where do you live?
I live in Japan, was born in Australia. Trust me, there are many many many people in Asia who would be put off "slutting it up" at younger ages. I have a Singaporean friend for example who wouldn't have sex out of marriage because she says it would be a disgrace to her ancestors.
Same in Australia - sure, there are plenty of people who sleep around etc in school or after even, but there are also a lot of people who do not. I all comes down to personal preferences, beliefs, backgrounds, cultures etc.
Not to say one is better or worse than another - as long as everyone is aware of the risks, and doesn't complain later about things they knew would happen beforehand, it is up to the individual. Personal responsibility and accountability.
[–] FatShamingShitLady ago
Personal responsibility and accountability for all things, always. Most of it is prevention which comes down to just education and being smart. Thats why I love the great sex ed in my country, it helps keep people safe and smart so they can prevent the bad consequences from ever happening.
My experience comes from Australia, Germany, Canada, Latvia, France, some American individuals, Greece, and New Zealand, plus discussions with people from Sweden, Denmark, Portugal, and I think possibly Austria but I might be mis-remembering that one. In all my experience no one I have ever associated with has ever had negative things to say and often just feel better about opening up about themselves in response, instead.
But we all have different beliefs, and it's ok to have different ones. I appreciate that fact a great deal, because it allows people to truly live free in a world where there are too many opinions to ever please them all. :)