Like the title says, my mom likes to shame me for having a few flings and boyfriends and whatnot. To be honest I am a ho, I am a 19yo shitlady in college, its probably more shameful if I do not fool arround, and my mom likes to shame me for it.
I decided to turn the tide on her and say things like "you're single, why don't you date a little?" And follow it with "you're going to have to lose some weight though if you want to be successful". Sometimes when she says something that she knows bothers me and that I don't find funny like " oh, who's this? Mr February?" Or "why don't you eat some meat you're a little too skinny" I'll just tell her "why don't you lose some weight?"
Yeah it's a fucking war in my house, although I'm winning, she joined medifast and has lost five pounds since I started shaming, sooo....
I want to forgive everyone for my grammar, I learned English, as a third lenguage, from valley girls
Edit: for all you shitlord worried about me, yes I am being safe, I'm on birth control and condoms. I'm a ho not an idiot (or a landwhale).
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[–] FatShamingShitLady ago
You're both right. Take care, use the resources that exist to stay safe, and don't be afraid to have fun. If preventative measures fail (which is rare due to their reliability, thank goodness for technology) there are many cures and treatments for those worst-case scenarios.
Seriously though whoever invented condoms deserves a prize.
[–] AxonCaradoc ago
Eh, I'm a bit of a prude - the same philosophy I have around not being fat also extends to promiscuity. TL:DR - Don't outsource personal responsibility and accountability in preventing unwanted pregnancy and spread of disease.
[–] FatShamingShitLady ago
Oh well of course never outsource responsibility, not on anything imo. But for men and woman who like casual sex, the responsibility is preventative measures and are 99% reliable so as long as you are smart chances of unwanted pregnancy and STDs is slim to none.
It's is, of course, about being smart, or it won't be effective at all. So thank fuck for great sex-ed in schools in my country. People like sex, and people like food, so I think education people on how to prevent STDs and obesity alike are crucial. You can have a slice of cake, sure, but be smart about how much and how often or you'll become obese. You can have a one night stand, sure, but make sure you know how to use condoms and get screened often if it's a regular occurrence. Responsibility is important and it's no one's fault but your own if you crew it up in either scenario.
Sadly obesity wasn't as taught about in my school as sex ed, so many hammy classmates. It's tragic. I love that my parents taught me better.