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[–] FPHrefugee 4 points -1 points (+3|-4) ago 

Yes most guys who look for a long term relationship would be put off by the younger years slutting it up. She may not want one now, but in the future she might. And then she'll have to settle lower.

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[–] FatShamingShitLady ago 

My experiences have been the exact opposite, this must be a regional thing.

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[–] sonic_sabbath ago 

Where do you live?
I live in Japan, was born in Australia. Trust me, there are many many many people in Asia who would be put off "slutting it up" at younger ages. I have a Singaporean friend for example who wouldn't have sex out of marriage because she says it would be a disgrace to her ancestors.

Same in Australia - sure, there are plenty of people who sleep around etc in school or after even, but there are also a lot of people who do not. I all comes down to personal preferences, beliefs, backgrounds, cultures etc.

Not to say one is better or worse than another - as long as everyone is aware of the risks, and doesn't complain later about things they knew would happen beforehand, it is up to the individual. Personal responsibility and accountability.

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[–] sonic_sabbath 2 points 0 points (+2|-2) ago 

Exactly! Nice to see a shitlady agreeing :)