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[–] sonic_sabbath 4 points 0 points (+4|-4) ago  (edited ago)

Maybe SHE doesn't care.
Personally, if I knew my girlfriend slept around a lot I would be a bit put off.
Even if she didn't sleep around ANY MORE, the fact that she DID shows what kind of morals and standards etc she holds for herself.
Even if some people are okay with that, I don't think I would be - and that, the same as my hating fats, is a personal taste.

As long as she is aware of the fact that some guys might not like the thought, she cannot complain later on if someone breaks up with her for her slutty tendencies.

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[–] Landao 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago 

This is all fine and good so long as you hold yourself to the same standard. Otherwise it's just hypocrisy.

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[–] FatShamingShitLady 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Agreed. An opinion is fine as long as it for all people and not for a specific group.

That's the line between an opinion and an -ism.(like sexism, racism, etc, which are stupid and unnecessary)

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[–] sonic_sabbath 1 point -1 points (+0|-1) ago 

Why would I want to stick my dick into random girls? I don't know where they've been D:

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[–] NerdButNotFat 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

I mostly agree. Except that hating fats isn't a personal taste, it's common sense and basic use of logic.

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[–] FatShamingShitLady 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Yeah, it can be ok to be a ho, and not ok to be a ho, but it will never ever ever be anything but unacceptable to be fat.

It's nice that this community will always have that to bring us together.

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[–] FatShamingShitLady ago 

Question: what makes her "morals and standards" worse if she enjoys safe casual sex? Like what exactly are the bad morals and standards? Please explain.

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[–] sonic_sabbath ago 

Well, there is no such thing as complete, 100% "safe sex" - even using a condom brings with it a risk of getting pregnant.

You are doing something which could bring into the world a child, one which is not planned for. Having a baby isn't a small thing, and should be planned for. To bring a child into the world because you wanted to "have some fun" is very irresponsible (in my opinion). In this way, I agree with not having sex until AFTER marriage. Or at least, until engaged.
That is ONE reason.

The other reason is that I (personally) believe that sex is a very personal thing. Especially for a women you are literally allowing somebody INSIDE you. That is very intrusive, and very personal. I don't want to think that my girlfriend or wife has been with another person at such an intimate level. I would like to believe sex is something important and special, not just something to be given out left and right.

Being religious as well, being "frivolous" is something which I like to avoid. We were made by God, and as such should follow the instruction manual we have been given.

Once again, these are PERSONAL feelings and beliefs. I am not going to tell other people they must abide by them, but I will be using them as guidelines for choosing a wife. Once again, my choice. I am sure there are other guys who believe the same. I am also sure there are women out there who feel the same. Exactly the same as you have the choice to have as much free or casual sex as you like, and choose your partners based on their wanting to do the same.

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[–] FPHrefugee 4 points -1 points (+3|-4) ago 

Yes most guys who look for a long term relationship would be put off by the younger years slutting it up. She may not want one now, but in the future she might. And then she'll have to settle lower.

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[–] FatShamingShitLady ago 

My experiences have been the exact opposite, this must be a regional thing.

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[–] sonic_sabbath 2 points 0 points (+2|-2) ago 

Exactly! Nice to see a shitlady agreeing :)