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[–] NerdButNotFat 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Some guys are like that (i am), some guys don't care if you slept around or not, but really she's probably not looking for a serious relationship before getting out of college so what does she really care if people she won't see ever again think she's a slut ?

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[–] sonic_sabbath 4 points 0 points (+4|-4) ago  (edited ago)

Maybe SHE doesn't care.
Personally, if I knew my girlfriend slept around a lot I would be a bit put off.
Even if she didn't sleep around ANY MORE, the fact that she DID shows what kind of morals and standards etc she holds for herself.
Even if some people are okay with that, I don't think I would be - and that, the same as my hating fats, is a personal taste.

As long as she is aware of the fact that some guys might not like the thought, she cannot complain later on if someone breaks up with her for her slutty tendencies.

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[–] Landao 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago 

This is all fine and good so long as you hold yourself to the same standard. Otherwise it's just hypocrisy.

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[–] NerdButNotFat 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

I mostly agree. Except that hating fats isn't a personal taste, it's common sense and basic use of logic.

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[–] FatShamingShitLady ago 

Question: what makes her "morals and standards" worse if she enjoys safe casual sex? Like what exactly are the bad morals and standards? Please explain.

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[–] FPHrefugee 4 points -1 points (+3|-4) ago 

Yes most guys who look for a long term relationship would be put off by the younger years slutting it up. She may not want one now, but in the future she might. And then she'll have to settle lower.