Here's a screen cap of the post from before it was removed.
The short version (it's long) is that OP gets setup with a fattie by one of her ham friends. The friend tricked OP using an old photo because she knew OP was into women, not farm animals. OP is surprised when deathfat shows up to date, tries to be nice, but ends up getting called an anorexic cunt. OP leaves, and is now being called a fatshaming bully by her ham friends.
Below is the now-removed post. As you can see, the upvoted comments basically say OP didn't do anything wrong by not being attracted to the porker, which is obviously triggering-as-fuck to the mods, so they had to pull it.
Edit: here's a link to the reddit thread. Apparently the mods aren't responding to OP's questions about why the post was removed.