I want to work in a bariatric hospital but it's hard to sympathize with fat fucks; especially if they don't take care of themselves and do what their doctors say. I want to be an office manager so I don't come in constant contact with fatties as I monitor their health. An SJW told me that I need to say "I know how you feel and I understand." before I say "If you want to live, you must do what the doctor asks of you or else your life would mean nothing." The SJW even did a roleplay with me where she pretended to be an alcoholic and I pretended to be a medical worker so it went like this.
Me: That alcohol will kill you. If you don't stop, you will die a slow and painful death.
SJW: I don't care and I'm happy with myself. Each person is different and I think I'm fine.
Me: If that's true, then why are you in my office?
SJW: I just wanted to see if I can continue living the way I want to and see if you have any advice that will help me without giving up my drinking habits.
Me: I just told you to stop drinking alcohol and you may be smiling now but soon, you will die a slow and painful death to the point of regret.
After that roleplay, she told me that I need to have sympathy for others if I want to work for a hospital of any kind including bariatric hospitals. She told me that when a bariatric patient is suffering from depression and food addiction, they need sympathy and be told that they have the willpower to change. Here's the problem; even if I tell them that and they get bariatric surgery, the rest of the treatment plan is in their hands. If they're sneaking in their trigger foods in their fat rolls and they get caught, the doctor has the right to sign them off to get discharged from their treatment centers for failure to follow with treatment plans. Skinny people suffer from depression too. So, if you're a medical worker, how do you deal with bariatric patients who are just admitted into the hospital for treatment?
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[–] SUPA_FUPA [S] 0 points 1 point 1 point (+1|-0) ago
1) To remind myself that there's so much more to life than just food. I've encountered people in real life who do nothing but talk about food and how it makes them happy. I want to be a medical office manager not a nurse or doc. Plus, these fatties remind me of suicidal people who rather eat themselves to death because they would rather have a "short happy life than a long miserable one". I want to be part of a team that wants to stop this. I could do embassy work for Vietnam in America but I have to live in Vietnam to obtain Vietnamese citizenship first so my dream job there may take long training sessions.
2) I like to have compassion but they must understand that their needs go first even before their feelings. To live is to make sacrifices than to overindulge one's self to death. Suicide is one of the medical topics I find rather interesting; especially if it involves food and obesity which doesn't get reported often enough to make headlines in anything. After all, you don't hear too much about depressed fatties going to buffets alone.