This is my first, and probably only, post on FPH. I have defended your actions more than once - I just did so a moment ago which prompted me to visit to see if things had changed. They have and I am disturbed and hope that this is not a trend.
One of the reasons that I respect you is because you are dedicated to hating obese people and only them. I've seen you rail on a community member for comments about gays, transgendered folk, or people of different races. I respect that. Your community has been about your hate of fat people and I accept that. I put almost no effort into my being fit and am really just naturally fit and an active person. It seems untoward of me to hate obese people because of this. It would seem hypocritical to me.
However, and this is my point, I noticed that you had @She labeled as a "Jew" in her flash. I am not Jewish nor do I particularly like that person. In the case of her flash it is clearly using "Jew" as a pejorative.
From an outsider who is looking in, that's a disturbing thing. If you fail to see why then, well, I am not sure what to tell you. You've been really good at being specifically about a single form of hate and disallowing all other hate.
I'm not offended. I've been online since the middle of the 1980s. I don't think I can possibly be offended. I am disturbed. I hope this is not a trend. This is enough to make it so that I will not be able or willing to defend you to others. You may not care about that. You may shrug it off. However, I doubt I am alone. Remember, you can not defend yourselves as well as someone who is unbiased and not a member can. The accusers will discount all of your debate points simply because of who you are.
I am not saying to change. I am not even suggesting you do so. I say the damage has already been done and maybe you, as a community, need some introspection to decide if you need to expand to "hate anything" instead of just being "fat people hate." Take this from someone who's not a member but has, in the past, respected and defended your actions. Hell, one of my highest rated comments comes from defending you folks.
I doubt I will reply much, if at all. This is a conversation you need to have amongst yourselves and I am not a community member.