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[–] kevo7777 6 points -5 points (+1|-6) ago  (edited ago)

In all honesty? Just go through with the date. You don't know if they intentionally "catfished" you, so why make a scene out of it? This is why I always make sure that whatever date activities there are are fun. If I can't gauge too much from their pic, I'll probably go to a movie. Heck, I'll probably pick a movie for a first date no matter what.

Side note: during the date is not where you decide to not be with this person. That's after the date. Just text less and less if they're the texting type and say that you're really busy. If they keep texting and you say that this isn't working out, then you have fallback. Well, the whole "I'm busy" thing worked for me, but they were also what I wasn't looking for and I really was busy.


[–] CakeTrap 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

What's the point? They lied to you, why do they deserve any more of your time? And keep texting them? No way. It's kinder just to say you're not interested.

Always go for coffee- at a quick-service place, not a sit-down- and peace out if they've used deceiving photos.


[–] Biohazard 1 points -1 points (+0|-1) ago 

Seriously? They didn't know they were using pictures that were 50 lbs ago?