Fat women lower the social status of men and do not look feminine. Period. That's the real reason why men typically don't choose them. It's not because we want to hurt anyone's feelings. The fat acceptance movement is fighting against nature. Trying to "guide" or trick or even force men to find them attractive is desperate and delusional. Fat acceptance type women are not "confident" nor "brave", just jealous and bitter. People are just trying to be polite so the pigs don't direct their jealous rage at them, kinda like when you're on public transport and some crazy guy gets on. Just avoid eye contact and them them pass.
I often see fat women trying to fit in with their normal sized friends, trying to pass themselves off as not fat. It's like if I tried to pass my 1988 van off as a Lamborghini. You would see me as pathetic. That's exactly how I see these "proud" fat people.
For those of you who are offended that this is sexist, lemme balance it out. The second that men try to get ANY pity for being fat, all this applies to them too. Wow, you're fat. What a cross to bear. Poor you.
If you're like me and hate the fat acceptance movement, here's some of my inspiration:
-Any "fat" related Ted Talk
-Amberlyn Reid on Youtube
- Louis CK dialogue with fat friend on his show where the fat whale publicly shames him into holding her hand.
- Kristin from Buzzfeed on Youtube