I was browsing a Reddit thread where medical professionals were discussing what it was like dealing with fat people - it was gruesome at times, but I have a sense of morbid curiosity about topics like that.
I know Reddit's known to have a lot of fats on there, but I was still surprised when I read a lot of comments about how they felt bad about the embarrassment and pain that obese people had to go through in hospitals. There was one comment in particular (I would link it, but the thread was really long and I couldn't find it again) about an obese, pregnant woman. Apparently she showed up at a hospital in labor and she was so big that there wasn't a bed big enough for her; she sat in the waiting room for an hour until they found something suitable.
All the comments under that were, "Poor woman", "That's so sad." I know everyone here will agree with me when I say that I don't feel bad for this woman in the slightest - in fact, I think she's a selfish person and will be a terrible mother. She got pregnant, knowing damn well that she was putting that child in danger, and then she didn't change her lifestyle in any way. She was so fat and gross and negligent that she could have miscarried, or left the baby with any number of health issues. So, no, I don't feel bad for her - I only feel bad for the child that will inevitably become just as disgusting as her.
And also that I love this community because I know that you are all thinking the same thing!