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[–] SleepyCicada [S] ago 

Yes, that’s good. I have to keep her weight or even her personally out of it somehow. Something along the lines of, ‘I find that we are such a relaxed team, we take our time when we work together. Time flies when you’re having fun, eh?’ And then add the family piece.

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[–] Kraeik ago 

why sugar coat it? there is no HR for her to complain to either.... just let her feelings get hurt.

Tell her that when we work together I end up having to do everything and it takes me twice as long to finish and I don't want to spend all night here.

boom.

You are under no obligation to use her, right, so just call it like it is. If you make up something else then you will never resolve this and you will ALWAYS be in this situation.

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[–] SleepyCicada [S] ago 

Sometimes she’s the only one available to call so I do have to rely on her every once in a while. Plus when we aren’t in the hospital it’s a tiny office where we have to see one another 2-3 days a week. Gah. Imagine showing up at work every day knowing someone there hates you.