I was at a family thing, and talking with my aunt. She's about 50, widowed, and lonely. She's also a small fat. (I hate that I used that word)
She was complaining about dating, and how hard it to find a decent man. She mentioned that she doesn't care if a guy has a gut, so why should it matter if she does?
I just said that it makes a difference, and she went off about shallowness and people should accept her as she is, and that not being attracted to fat is superficial. I could not convince her that fatness is more than skin deep.
Where do fats get these delusions, and why won't they accept reality?