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[–] Princess_Shitlady 1 point 1 point (+2|-1) ago  (edited ago)

When you say family I assume you mean a wife and kids? In my view my friend, I think that families can be all sorts of things, my little family is me, my SO and our dog - we are both Childfree by choice, I hope it is not weighing down heavily on you :( I hope you find the perfect lady for you and have an awesome life regardless of if you have children.

They do have no right to flirt whatsoever, I get creepy neck beards and all kinds of men eyeballing me whenever I walk down the street and in my head I am always thinking "Ew you gross fat fuck, as if you have a chance with me!". They think they are better than they actually are and fat women now always seem to have ridiculously high standards, ones that will keep them alone forever because any guy meeting those things will not want anything to do with the fat shit who's life revolves around food. They deserve everything that they get in the end. He wasn't fat but a local drug dealer with a girlfriend (their relationship is a joke, full of cheating and violence) and a kid with her tried to get me to have sex with him and it was not even funny because there is no way in hell would someone like that ever get to touch me like that, no fucking way.

It is a sad truth, like you say, so many other women now only care about the paycheck and the dick, not the man and soul inside him, it is really sad. You know, I have been posting friendship adverts on Craigslist and I have literally had guys emailing me not believing I am real and not believing a woman like me can exist - it shouldn't be that way. Sadly a lot of women lose their identity to motherhood and turn into a totally different person once kid comes along, some also let themselves go. It is a minefield when it comes to dating for both sexes now and it is so sad. Since when is the paycheck someone earns more important than the person they are inside? their soul? When I met my SO he had nothing but a room in a shared house with a mattress on the floor, he was not rich by any means but none of that meant shit to me because as a person he was/is such a wonderful, loving man and I am lucky to have him. Thankfully things have changed a great deal and now we have our own home (with a lovely king size bed lol).

I am glad that you are thinking like that, so many people marry whoever meets the bill regardless of the personality/issues they have. You can have an awesome life single and enjoy it, hold onto it until you meet that special person :)

Since day 1 I have not liked this girl, they have been together for almost 2 years. I even predicted last year that she would get pregnant and BAM!, this February she did, thankfully my friend stood up for himself and they had an abortion. They are two young kids starting out in life, a baby would have been devastating and thankfully he got her to see that too. She only has UK high school education and has no interest in getting further education or doing any job other than being a part time cleaner - I am so worried that she is going to financially leech off my friend, the financial arrangement they have is very worrying. She is giving him her entire paycheck of £200 to him towards the flat and in return he is going to be her main source of income. I did tell him that is a really bad idea and I told him about how she could study a degree at home (she is worried about being bullied - that is the only reason she isn't going to college - fucking pathetic). I think they may well split up after living together for a few months or she will get pregnant again and say she couldn't handle another abortion, trapping my friend. The only form of birth control she will take is the pill which is the easiest one for "mistakes" to happen, the pill is great but the human element is what makes it go wrong. He earns good money and works hard so it would piss me off big time, I wish he would just dump her because he could do and deserves so much better. Thankfully I do get him alone and I express my concerns to him, my SO does too and he does listen. When he told us about how jealous she was and what she does/makes him do I made clear just how wrong that is. He is a good lad and has a good head on his shoulders and me and my SO are like big brother/sister to him I guess? His Mam is an alcoholic and his dad has never cared and is cruel with him, so we are really the only voice of sense/reason I suppose. I do worry about him, especially dating that thing. I agree, I think he is going to regret it big time. This may make me a bitch, she is the only one I have done this with because she deserves it, but I do talk to her as a friend (I am not) to keep an eye on what she is thinking/feeling. I am trying to look out for him. She is so fucking needy, possessive, insecure, jealous, whiny, immature and more, she is a useless fat fuck waste of life. I only put up with her and act nice for my friend. She only posts pictures with filters too, it is incredible just how much I can see right through the bitch.

I am so sorry for the book there but it has been a major frustration for me, she is always posting shit this too.. This is a rare full body pic because of course, fatty is queen of MySpace angles and filters, she has told me she wears a UK 18 (US 14?) She is fat as fuck and I can see the train wreck coming but there is nothing I can do to stop it :( I will always be there for my friend though and I will support him even if I disagree with what he does or who he is with.

It is cool talking to you, you are more than welcome to pm me if you want to talk more :)