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[–] theepilepticferret 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

Those kids are probably fidgeting so much because their diets consist mainly of sugar and processed garbage. That junk isn't good for a growing body or mind.

And as a fit mom, I am so sick of how the general (read: fat) public think that if I'm taking care of my own health and body, then I must be neglecting my son. Just because I prioritize eating right and exercising over take-out and sitting around on my ass, it doesn't mean I'm vain or that my son doesn't get the love and care he deserves. But it's always extremes with fats; they can't comprehend that you can care for your child and yourself. They try to make themselves look like martyrs and blame their garbage pile bodies on their kids.

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[–] mmmmdonuts 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

Healthy happy mom = healthy happy kids! You are setting a great example. They just peanut butter and jelly because them and their piggies are all tubbos.

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[–] sh1tl0rd_of_ac1d 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

It must be infuriating to be judged on your parental skills for doing things for yourself (I don't have children so I don't have to deal with this). I can only assume fats act like this so when you point out their lack of self-care they can claim "HURR DURR I DONT HAVE TIME FOR THAT I SPEND ALL MY TIME TAKING CARE OF MUH KIDS munch munch MUH KIDS COME FIRST!!"

Yeah as if taking 1 hour out of the day for yourself = neglecting your children.

They are so retarded though that their opinions about what we do should matter to us about as much as the opinions of an amoeba. Other humans know you're doing the right thing. The opinions of non-humans don't matter.

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[–] theepilepticferret 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

That's exactly why they do it, so they can blame their fatness on being such a great mom that they don't even have time to cook from scratch or exercise!

In reality, I go to the gym for about 90 minutes each night with my husband, and baby comes too. They have a fantastic child-minding program where he gets to interact and socialize with different kids, which is good because he's an only child. And then I might spend 1 morning a week prepping and freezing meals with my mom. So it's not this crazy amount of time that hams make it out to be. They just like having an excuse.