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[–] FatShamingShitLady 0 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago 

Tell him you need to speak with him. Do it alone and never bring it up in front of the other family as they will jump to his defence. Show him the photos. Tell him you are worried about him. Tell him you want your niece/nephew to have a strong healthy father that they can run around and play with. The kid is so young and is going to be so full of energy and need a good role model in their life. Doesn't dad want to play catch? Doesn't he want to teach is kid how to play soccer, or take them on adventures? Doesn't he want his kid to have a health role model so that they can have a healthy future? Tell him he seemed happier when he was fit and that you are worried that he will leave things too late and only realize he is making a mistake when he is obese and that changes should be made as soon as possible because once he is fat it would be unlikely that he would shed the pounds.